It's called The Child Training Bible. All you need is this kit, some highlighters (I actually used Twistables colored pencils--don't bleed through the page), certain colors of Post-it flags (I ended up using regular Post-it notes I already had, and cut them down to size), and a Bible. From the outside, it ends up looking something like this:
So, you'll want a separate Bible just for this purpose (must be a certain size, too--9" X 6"), because I think it would be awkward trying to flip through this Bible at church, Bible study, or other places. But for the purpose this serves, the tabs are wonderful!
Here is a video telling you the details, made by the couple who created the product. It will explain things so much better than I could write it.
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We have been using this for several weeks now, and it is so wonderful to just sit calmly down with LM, read Bible verses that pertain to his problem at the moment (and sometimes mine, too!), discuss the suggested questions which are provided, and pray together. My husband and I have always believed the Bible is the place to go for raising a child, but sometimes in the moment the appropriate verses can just escape me. My frustration in those times doesn't usually help the situation. Now I can calmly and confidently pick up this special Bible, silently pray as we head toward the couch, and begin a conversation. It really diffuses most potentially explosive conflicts, and focuses on the heart of the matter.
The only negatives are that it can be pricey if you need to buy all the different materials and it takes several hours to set it up. But you can improvise on some of the materials like I did, and the time is MORE than worth it!
BE SURE TO CHECK THE WEBSITE TO MAKE SURE THE BIBLE YOU INTEND TO USE IS THE CORRECT SIZE! There is a template you can print off to see if it fits in your Bible. The Bible I used was a tiny bit small, but I was able to trim the edges of the cards to fit. This is risky, but it worked for me.
I love that I can use this Bible I've set up with LM until he leaves home (sniff, sniff) and then pass it down to him and his future wife and children if they choose to use it. Who knows how many generations will be influenced by this simple yet profound tool? :)